I met with a lovely couple tonight to discuss the details of their ceremony. I was very impressed! They had already written a draft of their ceremony and wanted to enhance it. I asked a lot of questions that would allow me to make it more personalized, and suggested a few things they might want to add. Together we’ll tweak it until it is perfect for them.
My point is that it is very important to explain to your officiant exactly what type of ceremony you want. Explaining your overall concept as well as providing details about you as a couple will definitely help to ensure that the end product is a ceremony that is interesting, memorable, and very personal to you!