A fairly new additional to the Unity Market is the Unity Cross. It’s assembled during the ceremony by the couple, and then can be used as a decoration in the home afterwards. It’s offered in diffferent materials online by different vendors including davidsbridal.com.
This is in addition to the already popular Unity Candle and Unity Sand ceremonies.
I met with a lovely couple tonight to discuss the details of their ceremony. I was very impressed! They had already written a draft of their ceremony and wanted to enhance it. I asked a lot of questions that would allow me to make it more personalized, and suggested a few things they might want to add. Together we’ll tweak it until it is perfect for them.
My point is that it is very important to explain to your officiant exactly what type of ceremony you want. Explaining your overall concept as well as providing details about you as a couple will definitely help to ensure that the end product is a ceremony that is interesting, memorable, and very personal to you!
As a Wedding Officiant, I find that many couples are searching for an escape from the ordinary and traditional. Couples are writing and personalizing their vows with details that address not only the lofty expectations of the future, but the everyday details ( I promise not to kick you out of bed for snoring!) as well.
There’s a great excerpt from Dr. Seuss’ “Oh The Places You’ll Go” that you may find appropriate to your ceremony:
Congratulations! Today is your day. You’re off to Great Places! You’re off and away! You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself any direction you choose. You’re on your own. And you know what you know. And YOU are the couple who’ll decide where to go. You’ll look up and down streets. Look ‘em over with care. About some you will say, “We don’t choose to go there.” With your heads full of brains and your shoes full of feet, you’re too smart to go down, any not-so-good street. And you may not find any you’ll want to go down. In that case, of course, you’ll head straight out of town. It’s opener there in the wide open air, Out there things can happen and frequently do to people as brainy and footsy as you. And when things start to happen, don’t worry. Don’t stew. Just go right along. You’ll start happening too.
OH! THE PLACES YOU’LL GO!
You’ll be on your way up! You’ll be seeing great sights! You’ll join the high fliers who soar to great heights! You won’t lag behind, because you’ll have all the speed. You’ll pass the whole gang, and you’ll soon take the lead. Wherever you fly you’ll be best of the best. Wherever you go, you will top all the rest. Except when you don’t. Because sometimes, you won’t. You’ll get mixed up of course, as you already know. You’ll get mixed up with so many strange birds as you go. So be sure when you step. Step with great care and great tact and remember that Life’s a Great Balancing Act. Just never forget to be dexterous and deft. And never mix up your right foot with your left. And will you succeed? Yes! You will indeed!(98 and ¾ percent guaranteed.)
KIDS, YOU’LL MOVE MOUNTAINS!
So, be your name Buxbaum or Dowrie or Bassor Mordecai Ali Van Allen O’Shea, you’re off to great places! Today is your day! Your mountain is waiting. So … get on your way!”
Remember – it’s YOUR day. Work with your Officiant to ensure that the ceremony includes what YOU want in it!